Here’s a video of Dan Savage, breaking it down beautifully and simply, as always. A reader asks why he (or she) never manages to stay interested in a guy for longer than two months. Savage goes on to explain what one must do to stay in a long-term, romantic relationship. (spoiler alert: it’s not easy)

His reply rings brutally true. If this is something you want but has eluded you so far, you might want to spend the next five minutes watching this.


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